When you have exhausted Ich Will dich Immernoch and feel brave about getting out in the world again there is this song, Ich bin nicht verliebt from the album Unverwundbar.
Unverwundbar is one of those “gird your loins” songs. I remind myself of lessons learned from the past relationships and that those failures don’t predict future success. I know, sounds like the crap that you get from self help gurus. And, strictly speaking, that isn’t exactly what this song is saying. He is just saying that what once hurt, hurts no more. I’ve been there. And when I get close to that place I remind myself that I am invincible, immune to the shades of the past.